
I have a series of posts on Instagram showcasing elements of “my folklore”, that is to say the culture of *me.* This includes what we love, what we don’t, what we celebrate, and the paradoxes that we live. And when I say we, I am essentially referring to my (past, present, and future) community; but more cut and dry, I’m referring to *ME* and The Unseen Realm. My spirit, and the spirit of my business (which I’ve actually started referring to as a practice, more than business.)
The idea behind this series was to share more of me, of The Unseen Realm, in an easy way to get to know what we’re all about a little bit better.
One of my folklore posts declares:

“In my folklore, we love deep conversations and ‘big talk’ WAY more than small talk.”
I'm not much for small talk. The boring small talk about superficial topics, or gossip, or talking about the weather isn't my favourite… (but of course I *do* this last one, I'm Canadian 🤷).
In my folklore, in my life, I like THE BIG TALK and deep, meaningful conversations! Let's chat meaning of life, controversial topics, conspiracy theories, fan theories, new ideas, abstract or deep topics, psychology, or get a little philosophical (or a lot philosophical 💭🧠).
As I considered this part of my folklore, I realized that my inquisitive nature and love for big talk, could be in service to those of you on your conscious self-discovery, healing, spiritual, inner work, and/or personal development journeys!
So I've put together a list of spiritual-flavoured questions (which will make themselves into an Instagram series), for you to ponder and dig into your conscious self-discovery journey even more.
I invite you to explore not only the question itself, but also what your desired answer would be. I’ll add some examples of these extra explorations below select questions, and I encourage you to ask even more questions where you can.
These can also be used as conversation starters, with others! These questions aim to stimulate introspection, spark meaningful conversations, and resonate with individuals on their spiritual and self-discovery journeys.
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Here are 36+ big talk questions that will allow you to delve into further conscious self-discovery, or start some epic conversations and deepen your emotional intimacy:
- How do you approach the journey of self-healing, and what modalities have you found most effective for your own healing journey?
- What modalities might you like to try, that you have yet to experience?
- What does it mean to you to connect with your inner child, and how do you nurture that connection?
- Do you desire this relationship to look any different?
- How do you navigate the balance between self-love and self-improvement in your personal growth journey?
- Have you ever experienced synchronicities or meaningful coincidences that guided you on your path? If so, what were they?
- How do you honour your ancestors and ancestral wisdom in your spiritual practice, if at all?
- If not, would you like to and/or what hesitations do you face?
- Can you recall a time when you felt a strong sense of alignment with your purpose or calling? What did it feel like?
- How do you incorporate gratitude into your daily routine, and how does it impact your perspective on life?
- Have you ever experienced a "dark night of the soul"? How did you navigate through it?
- What role does forgiveness play in your journey of healing and self-discovery?
- What is your relationship to forgiveness?
- How do you discern between ego-driven desires and soul-aligned intentions?
- How and when has a moment of vulnerability deepened a connection with someone in your life?
- How do you consciously express and honour your boundaries in relationships, both personally and professionally?
- What qualities do you value most in a mentor or guide on your spiritual journey?
- How do you stay grounded and connected to the present moment amidst life's chaos and distractions?
- Can you recall a time when you experienced a profound shift in consciousness or perception? What triggered it?
- How do you practice self-compassion and self-care during times of stress or difficulty?
- How do you desire to do so?
- Have you ever experienced a past-life regression or explored past-life themes in your current life? What did you discover?
- How do you incorporate ritual or ceremony into your spiritual practice, if at all?
- What role does surrender play in your spiritual journey, and how do you cultivate trust in the universe?
- How do you balance the pursuit of personal growth with acceptance of where you are in the present moment?
- What does it mean to you to "follow your intuition," and how do you distinguish it from fear or desire?
- How do you cultivate a sense of inner peace and harmony amidst external turmoil or conflict?
- Can you recall a time when you felt deeply connected to nature or the universe? What insights did you gain from that experience?
- How do you honour and integrate both light and shadow aspects of yourself in your spiritual practice?
- What rituals or practices do you engage in to celebrate personal milestones or transitions in your life?
- How do you navigate through periods of uncertainty or ambiguity on your spiritual journey?
- How do you discern between divine guidance and your own desires or biases?
- What role do dreams or dreamwork play in your spiritual practice, if any?
- How do you cultivate a sense of abundance and prosperity in your life, beyond material wealth?
- Can you recall a time when you felt deeply aligned with your intuition, and it led you to unexpected opportunities or insights?
- How do you incorporate creativity and expression into your spiritual practice?
- What practices or rituals do you engage in to cleanse or purify your energy?
- How do you cultivate resilience and inner strength during times of adversity or challenge?
- How do you integrate spiritual insights or experiences into your everyday actions and decisions?
- What practices do you engage in to cultivate a deeper connection with your “higher self” or inner wisdom?
- How do you envision your spiritual journey evolving in the future, and what steps are you taking to align with that vision?
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